Maybe you’re developing a crush on the new guy in the office. Maybe you find that friend of your friend who you met at the bar over the weekend really cute.
Maybe that kid in your class who sits a couple of tables away from you is really catching your eye. You can’t help but think to yourself: how do you get this guy to chase after you?
Well, you have to rid yourself of that thinking. He doesn’t have to be the one who does the chasing.
In fact, no one really has to be doing the chasing in relationships anymore. The dynamics of dating have changed substantially and it’s just infinitely more complicated now.
But at the end of the day, the one constant is time. Even if everything in the world around us is constantly changing, the time that we are given will always be the same.
We can’t bargain for any more and that’s why we always need to make the most out of whatever time we are given. We can’t afford to be wasting our time trying to get men to chase us – not especially the wrong men.
Here are 10 reasons as to why you should stop trying so hard to make him chase after you.
1. You need to focus on everything that you have to get done in your life.
There are so many things that you have to do in your life. There are so many places that you want to go. There are many people that you have to meet. There are many goals that you have to accomplish.
2. You don’t want to come off as a person who’s completely desperate.
If you try too hard to get a man to chase after you, you will come off as really desperate and downright passive-aggressive. Don’t be coy about it.
If you like someone, come right out and say it. But don’t be super imposing or don’t be trying too hard.