Don’t be scared.
Ah. The difficult task of having to admit to your crush that you like them. You risk sounding like a complete idiot but if it all works out, then it could be the start of great things for the two of you. Don’t worry about it. You aren’t the only person in the world who would feel awkward when you thrust yourself into a situation like that. A lot of people are prone to looking like bumbling idiots who don’t know what they’re doing. Not everyone is going to be skilled with supreme confidence to be able to go through this social situation without shame or shyness. So you don’t have to worry about making a fool of yourself. In fact, if you play your cards right, your foolishness might come off as somewhat cute and endearing. Just make sure to always be honest and stay true to your feelings. Don’t do anything out of the ordinary and let your personality shine through.
Remember that people don’t die as a result of admitting to someone that they like them. You aren’t going to die. Your life isn’t going to end if things don’t go your way. You don’t have to worry about a thing. The worst case scenario is that you get shut down – yes, it’s going to hurt, but you’re going to be able to recover from this. And you have to know that the potential benefits are always going to outweigh the potential risks. It’s an absolutely exciting and anxious feeling that you’re going to get out of this experience. You don’t want to end up missing out on an opportunity for love with someone that you really like just because you were too afraid of failure or rejection. You have to learn to get over your fears eventually.
Yes, it can be hard to deal with rejection. But know that the torment of wondering about a lost opportunity is going to hurt you way more than rejection ever could. You don’t want to end up thinking “What if?” to yourself over and over again just because you were too chicken. And don’t worry about being completely lost on what you’re supposed to be doing. That’s what this article is for. Just read on until the end of this list and follow these tips to help you get over your fear and find the courage to actually admit your feelings to someone.
1. Make the admission in person.
For one, you’re going to come off as really brave for doing so in person. To resort to text messages or phone calls would be seen as a weak move.
In addition to that, you won’t have to worry about waiting for a reply if you make your admission in person. If you send it through text and your crush doesn’t reply right way, you are going to go crazy with anxiety.
If you admit to your crush that you like them in person, then you have the opportunity to actually witness how they’re going to react to your admission.