A confident and funny woman is the biggest turn on for me.
There is no denying the value of looks, appearances, and aesthetics in this modern age especially when it comes to men. It’s practically common knowledge that men are known to be very aesthetic-driven creatures. They thrive on aesthetic pleasures in a very commercialized media-heavy world. That’s why a lot of women who are considered to be “pretty” and “beautiful” may have an easier time at landing men and finding relationships. However, MAINTAINING a relationship is another story entirely. Yes, good looks can catch the attention of men, but being able to maintain whatever connection and bond you have with them is trickier. It’s going to take a lot more than just good looks to keep your man in love with you.
Truthfully speaking, as the relationship gets deeper and deeper, the looks just matter less and less. When couples stay together for years or even decades, it won’t matter so much what they look like to each other anymore. The biggest factor in really establishing, building, and maintaining a strong emotional connection with another person is with the personality.
Yes, you can garner a man’s attention with your impeccable good looks. But you can only make a man really fall in love with you with your character, attitude, and your overall personality. Here are the 6 things about you that a man really loves the most aside from your good looks.
1. You are kind and thoughtful.
Kindness and thoughtfulness can go a really long way in a relationship with someone. As you get older, it will be much more important for your man to have a woman who takes care of him and who really values him than a woman who just looks pretty all the time. A man wants to be taken care of and wants to be thought of by his girl. Here is always value in a woman who is genuinely kind and who has lots of love in her heart. Looks are great, but a kind heart is even greater.